Friday, November 10, 2006

Girl/Girl Drama

Confessed by Lola at 10:43 AM
I mentioned in my last post that one of my goals is some hot girl fucking, with a girl who really wants to be fucked. In talking with Dragon about it, he warned me to be careful with what I say within this post, in that those with whom we've played may think I'm referring to the "she" half of the couple. Well, I'm certainly not going to give details specific to an event, because my notions really don't encompass any one event.

No experience that I've had with another woman has been one of negativity. I must preface all of this by saying at least that. The few women with whom I've had to pleasure to play have been beautiful, fun and sexy to say the least!

I've noticed a trend, IN GENERAL, with women in the "lifestyle." This trend is what I refer to as "posing." A woman who says she is bisexual, but really isn't and is only saying so to please either her man, men in general, or to be just more fashionable. Again, I'm not saying this about anyone we know personally.

I've seen women in the clubs, dancing, flirting, and kissing other women. They may suck on a nipple or two, perform a completely graphic french kiss (you know - the porn quality girl/girl french kiss....all tongues, no lips), but when you get down to the meat of the matter, it's all show, no go.

I know that bisexuality is all the rage right now. In young, hip, sexually free circles, it's cool for one girl to kiss and feel up another girl. But it's all too obvious when it's an act. And to me, that's just downright disappointing.

I had an experience with a girl that was so incredibly fucking fabulous and passionate, that I couldn't imagine having any other kind of experience with a woman. I know now that there should be just as much chemistry involved between women, as there is between men - if not more.

What does one do, however, when engaged in a situation where the other woman isn't "all there?" Do you stop and say, "Alright, look. You're obviously not into this, so let's just move on." Or do you just go through the motions like she is, watching the pleasure it brings your man, and move on quickly back to him to finish him off?

I pose this to my readers, and do so look for feedback.

And as always, I will continue my hunt, and forge on toward the achievement of my goal, for another great girl/girl fuck.

Ciao.

4 Comments:

Blogger Hip Swingster said...

Interesting question. I will pose it to my better half.

12:52 PM  
Blogger Hip Swingster said...

The Wife's Response: "I can't say that I have ever experienced this, of course I could just be putting the blinders on. I just get so excited when I get to be with another woman!! I don't think I would say anything, but I would wrap it up and move on to the man...hopefully he isn't faking it either.

12:58 PM  
Blogger Danni and B said...

Read our posts about newbie girls and bi-comfortable or b-curious girls. You're right, sometimes it's not worth the effort and better to just move on. However, take the time to work on those who are inexperienced but willing to learn. You (and they) will not be disappointed.
xoxo, Danni
danni654.blogspot.com

4:04 PM  
Blogger Mikey in DC said...

We agree with danni and b. Many times the fakeness we see is a lack of experience in knowing what else to do. No one teaches you how to be with a girl (although we'd love to volunteer). Certainly watching porn and Girls Gone Wild gets you exactly what you talked about. But many women just don't know how to let their feelings for the other person be the guide whether it's a man or woman. Funny enough when we do play it's usually the connection the women have that ultimately gets us together. So if it seems fake and not just a nervous lack of knowledge, things usually don't progress at all.

8:04 PM  

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